What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence, without a basic kind and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is frequently a fantastic physical, mental well-being. Normally, the receiver is really unwinded, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. A lot of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really enjoy that touches. The hands of the giver are linked with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not think of yesterday or tomorrow. Don't browse or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on providing or getting the massage. A really mindful touch from the heart. Get likewise very knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern. Everything takes place in the moment, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not planned (still, when that's exactly what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that exactly what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a very surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, obviously, however since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always must be guaranteed. Caring attunement always precedes.
Set clear borders beforehand
It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also completely okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ user-friendly energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however usually, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows different techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function besides self-realization: bring back the natural (delighted) state of being.
Normally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally nice, often scrumptious. We, for that reason, welcome you to totally delight in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have specific practices and methods in typical. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well because you are really super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- prior to you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't try to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. However, understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than news sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing result. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).